Jan 29, 2010

Five Mistakes to Avoid While Dating an Eastern European Lady

Posted by admin under Adult Life & Dating

This article will be interesting for every man who is going to find a Russian lady. Learn 5 most common mistakes men make with hot russian girls. The first tip is the most important; others are also very important.

1. Sending her dollars. Don't send your money to a girl who you met on Internet site. You should realize that a true-hearted lady would not ask; she has too much pride. Besides, she has lived for 20+ years without your “help”. Why would she ask for your help now? Any former Soviet Union girl who asks you for currency is only trying to scam you. A Russian lady does not believe you two to be in a “real” relationship until you have met in person! Would you give your cash to a girl from your country that you had just met? Remember about it. It is just not rational and may bring you trouble (and makes the ladies believe it is simple and gives them reasons for the similar behavior).

2. Not interrogating. You are looking for a help mate, not a girl to simply spend the time. Eastern European women are honest (for the most part) and they deserve the proper respect. Besides, if you do not question to find out more about her, her dreams etc… she will sooner or later decide that you are not serious. Then she will leave you, or just see what she can get out of you! If you are truly looking for a wife, you should be putting her a lot of different questions! Not only ask many questions, but put them several times in different ways, just to make sure if you get similar answers (a good way to protect yourself from a scam).

3. Sending her the photos she doesn't need. Don't give her photos of your car or other welfare measure. If you do, you will get the wrong type of girl. An ordinary woman from Eastern Europe is more interested in your soul than she is about your house and your car. If you focus on your money, she may decide you are a shallow and insecure person. Focusing on your money only will work on women from the West, the most superficial and insecure women in the world! This is not America, there is no need to impress these women with money! Show them your personality, what you like to do, how you think and feel and you'll find a thankful life partner.

4. Not preparing seriously for a trip. Do you know that that you'll have to go to your woman in her country before bringing her to America as your fiancee? Yes, it is the only way she can get a visa to come to the USA. An Eastern European girl, if she is family oriented, will want to meet you. You have to be ready to visit her in the future. A lady will usually give you about half a year to tell her you will come. Then some more months get ready. If you make her wait longer period she will decide you are a shallow and write to a man she would consider is more reliable! Just be prepared physically and monetarily.

5. Not thinking about plan B. It's a significant mistake! If you for all that go over to Russia, you never know what will happen. You sure will get some unexpected results! No matter how many letters you have exchanged with your lady or how many times you talked to her on the phone, once you see her in person, things will become different. It's possible that you both look at one another and understand it will not work. Your backup plan will help you if it happens. And do not make a trip just for one lady. Meet several. Also try to have good relations with at least one of the local agencies in the city you will be visiting. Know their address and phone numbers. Later, if something unexpected happens, you will be able to call another service and meet other ladies.

So, try to follow these recommendations and you will surely have luck with dating russian women

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